Embracing the Journey of Transition: A Heartfelt Perspective

Today, I would like to share some fresh perspective on seasons of transition. As I look back, I can trace the beginnings of my own transition to 2019. I felt a stirring deep within me, a sense that something significant was on the horizon, but I had no idea what it would be. Then came 2020, a year that forced all of us into a collective transition. It was a time of upheaval and uncertainty, and while the world was grappling with change, I sensed that my personal journey was just beginning.

Fast forward to now, and here we are in the middle of 2025. I find myself—and many others—once again navigating another major transition. It’s a wild ride, isn’t it? No matter where you are in your own journey, it can feel like life is happening to you rather than with you. I’ve been asking myself lately: Are we ever really done with transition?

Through this long season of change, I believe God has been whispering some important truths to my heart. I hope that by sharing them, I can bring a little light and hope to your own journey.

Facing Failure and the Fear of Loss

One of the hardest parts of transition is grappling with the fear of failure and the loss of things we hold dear—people, reputation, finances, homes, community, jobs, and ministry. Honestly, I feel like I’ve walked through the fire on this one. I’ve faced my biggest fears of failure and loss, and let me tell you, it wasn’t easy. Did it hurt? Absolutely. But did I learn some incredible lessons along the way? You bet!

What I’ve discovered is that none of those things—people, money, jobs, or titles—ever brought me the joy and peace I was searching for. We often say our worth shouldn’t be tied to these external factors, but when they’re stripped away, we truly see what we believe. In this process, I’ve found a strength in God that I never knew existed. There’s something so liberating about letting go of everything I thought I needed to be happy. It’s like stepping into a new light, a fresh perspective that brings hope.

Letting Go of the Fear of Man

This has been a huge lesson for me. I never realized just how much I cared about what others thought of me until God started to shine a light on it. Once I recognized this, I couldn’t help but see all the times I compromised or made decisions based on people’s opinions instead of God’s truth. Honestly, I could write a whole book on this lesson alone—who knows, maybe I will one day! But for now, I want to encourage you to reflect on this too. What voices are you listening to? 

Breaking Free from Religious Attachments

My attachment to religion was deeply intertwined with those fears of failure, loss, and the opinions of others. As I’ve worked through these fears, I’ve realized they were tied to a spirit of religion that didn’t truly reflect God’s heart. This season of transition has been about shedding the old wineskin and making room for the new wine that God wants to pour into my life. 

Transition can be painful. Peeling off the old wineskin hurts; dying to self is not easy. At times, this journey can feel overwhelming, and it’s tempting to want to give up rather than continue the transformation from the old to the new. But I want to encourage all of us to keep pushing through the pain. What awaits us on the other side is so much greater than the struggles we face during this transition.

A Prayer for Strength and Hope

Father, I pray for everyone reading this today. May they find the peace, joy, and hope that can only come from You. Help us endure the pressure and pain of transition. Give us the courage to allow You to peel away the old wineskin and to reveal everything we need to know so that we can step fully into the new things You have prepared for us. Amen.

As we navigate these transitions, let’s remember that they are not just endings but also beautiful new beginnings. Embrace the journey, hold onto hope, and trust that God is at work in every step. You are not alone in this—let’s walk through it together!

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